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Use your tongue and fingers to gently massage the opening of the anus. To help the bottom relax, first indulge in foreplay. This will ensure you’re rectum is super clean and avoid any unnecessary accidents. Before sex or playing with your anal toys it’s a good idea to bathe, shower and anal douche. H.Y.G.I.E.N.E is a must! At esmale we say keep it clean, don’t treat them mean.
Anal toys are becoming far more popular as more and more of us explore the pleasures of anal sex, whether you consider yourself a ‘top’ or ‘bottom’ below are just a few tips that you should take into account to get you started.